She has a quiet peacefulness,
Gently touching those who wade in her presence.
A soothing voice,
Reaching out to an opened ear.
Violently she can rise to an impassioned fury,
Destructive; dangerous in her reach.
Screaming anger,
She yells out to beware her wrath.
Rolling toward, she offers herself willingly,
Pulling back, daring to take her on.
Fiercely she attacks all who stand their ground,
Leaving dismissively as if never having appeared.
Returning swiftly over and over again,
Gracefully departing with equal consistency.
She is home to countless who live within her love,
Embracing against her breast all that breath her life.
With total abandon she bombards years of perfectionist creation,
The slap of her hand eroding what has stood through time.
She is stubbornly independent,
Basking in a freedom that cannot be tamed.
She is hopelessly dependent,
Wilting at the whim of men, who contaminate her heart.
She is alive; beautiful.
She is withdrawn; ravaging.
She is a million built continuities,
An equally measured marked discrepancies.
She is all that.
[Written for me so long ago...]
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
~ Prince Charming, not... ~
The soothing voice that fills my earsA laughter tender so
Every moment within his midst
Is all I need to know.
Finally re-felt his gentle touch
Every moment within his midst
Is all I need to know.
Finally re-felt his gentle touch
His body warm to hold
Kisses melting upon my lips
His beauty I behold.
He lays behind me & there is quite a "flow"...
In his arms he holds me tight...
His passion rises in basking glow.
My love I can’t deny.
With morning comes new realizations
Another evening’s past it seems
Even as loving as it was, with new aspirations...
Was just another of my dreams.
Now each life I cling with need
My lover I hope I find
As eyes grow heavy and thoughts grow dim
I seek him in my mind.
I've been dreaming for days,
Nearly or close to fall,
Prince Charming, If I may,
Isn't a Prince after all...
Charming, yes you are,
Manners are alack,
You're not worth wishing that star,
I always wait for you to be back?
And Prince, I'd like to tell you this,
At least once before I go,
I really LIKED U A LOT.
I've got no more cards to show.
Glass slipper ain't mine,
I am not asleep either,
I have two feet just fine.
So don't think I'm your Princess neither.
I won't be dreaming today,
Neither will I fall
He may or not be a Prince,
But He ain't mine after ALL.
Kisses melting upon my lips
His beauty I behold.
He lays behind me & there is quite a "flow"...
In his arms he holds me tight...
His passion rises in basking glow.
My love I can’t deny.
With morning comes new realizations
Another evening’s past it seems
Even as loving as it was, with new aspirations...
Was just another of my dreams.
Now each life I cling with need
My lover I hope I find
As eyes grow heavy and thoughts grow dim
I seek him in my mind.
I've been dreaming for days,
Nearly or close to fall,
Prince Charming, If I may,
Isn't a Prince after all...
Charming, yes you are,
Manners are alack,
You're not worth wishing that star,
I always wait for you to be back?
And Prince, I'd like to tell you this,
At least once before I go,
I really LIKED U A LOT.
I've got no more cards to show.
Glass slipper ain't mine,
I am not asleep either,
I have two feet just fine.
So don't think I'm your Princess neither.
I won't be dreaming today,
Neither will I fall
He may or not be a Prince,
But He ain't mine after ALL.
Sunday, September 28, 2008
~ TanninG ~
[before getting in the tanning bed, should I do it?]
[after I got out of the tanning bed... ]So this post is precisely about that!
I went tanning for the first time today.
I must admit I felt a bit scared and awkward laying on a bed to get color. (how lame)
I find it stupid since we have all summer to do outdoor activities and stuff but hey... who cares.
Body is just matter... if it rottens... oh GREAT! [it happens]!
I laid there... A lot of things were going through my mind,... to the point where I had the radio playing and if you asked me any of the songs that were playing I cannot tell you.
Thoughts going through my head:
- It's getting hot.
- It's getting hotter.
- It burns a little.
- Maybe I should try to open this back up just to make sure I am not stuck here (so I did..)
- Will I stay with the mark of these little stupid glasses on my face... ?
- Will this tell me when to get up?
- Will it get any hotter?
- Turn little glasses around so I don't get the mark of them on my nose...
- Do they say there's Regular, Maximum and whatever ... just to pretend all settings aren't the same?
- Oh, I feel it burning my skin now.
- Yup, it's frying...
- Why am I doing this again?
- What if I fall asleep?
- I am sure that are people that come here tired and they fall asleep...
- Wow, this is crazy.
- Let me try to open this back up just to check if it STILL opens... (so I did...)
- Let me check the timer...
- 3 Minutes...
- Time for one more song...
- Some lame country shit playing...
- I can't believe I'm doing this...
- Lights on the tanning bed go off...
- I get up... put clothes back on.
- OH SHIT... I LOOK LIKE A FUCKING LOBSTER! [picture above]
- 10 minutes, wow... this is crazy.
- Is this normal?
[Then I'm just tripping about it the whole way home!]
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Life Happens...
You have to take the good with the bad,smile with the sad,
love what you've got,
remember what you had,
always forgive,
but never forget,
learn from your mistakes,
but never regret,
people change,
things go wrong,
but always remember life goes on.
love what you've got,
remember what you had,
always forgive,
but never forget,
learn from your mistakes,
but never regret,
people change,
things go wrong,
but always remember life goes on.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Procuro...
[home]Dias pintados na cor suave de um raio de sol, iluminando pelo brilho de um terno olhar...
Nas noites frias que se aproximam, e se fazem sentir, os sentidos de outras noites, serenas e magicas. Noites, onde o sonho se fez quadro colorido na tela branca das minhas paredes [e tecto]!
A minha fadinha do nada... que tanto me persegue! =]
Procuro...
Nas palavras que nascem do silencio desta ausensia, a voz que se fez murmurio no vento.
Voz que foi melodia ritmada no compasso do meu coracao...
Nos gestos ja sentidos, aqueles que tocaram de leve a minha alma.
Gestos que foram abracos de ternura e aconchego...
Procuro...
Nos sentidos que ficaram e na saudade que se fez presente, nas emocoes que despertaram e nos desejos que permanecem...
Na chuva miudinha que brota dos olhos e na esperanca va e inocente, na alma que chora e no coracao que silencia a dor...
Procuro...
Por ti que sabes usar as cores do arco-iris para pintar os dias de um ceu azul inebriado e de um mar tranquilo e sereno.
Por ti que iluminas as noites com luares de magia e embalas os sonhos nas mil estrelas que teimo em querer alcancar...
Tu que es sorriso, toque suave na alma e sentido no coracao!
Procuro...
E continuarei ah procura, ate que me faltem as forcas...
Mesmo sem saber o que realmente procuro, e o que poderei vir a encontrar...
Apenas procuro o amor... Aquele que sei que existe... E para que vivo...
E no final de tanta procura ainda quem acabara por encontrar nao serei eu...
Mas ele a mim...
Friday, September 19, 2008
* 2 intelligent beings... *
- I know how to reach a perfect world!
- A perfect World? It does exist.
- I know it does, indeed. I know how to reach it.
~ War
~ Politics
~ People
~ Perspective
~ Dictation
~ Neighbors House
~ World without War/Death
~ No pure and innocent, because that's a communist idea LOL
~ Consciousness
- We do not need to be perfect not to kill one another. We need to be RATIONAL!
- Is that even possible for human beings? Isn't the human being full of consciousness for itself?
- Am I insane?
- No you are not insane.
- I am conscientious of everything, don't you understand you are everything? One With the world?
~ Conflict
~ Provocation
~ Bombs
~ 2008, there should not be no war
~ No hunger
~ Peace
~ Development
~ Progress
~ Union
- There are rich people and poor people for a reason. For a good balance. They exist so we can help them stand on their feet. They shall walk by themselves afterwards.
- Are they willing to walk?
- People with good will should be out there feeding the people.
- You... You... are my consciousness. :)
- You can be whatever you want to be, even a Prince.
- But I am a Prince.
~ Timor
~ Voices
~ Change
~ Opportunity
~ Children
~ Somalia
~ Thinking
~ Respect
~ Economy
- Being selfish to the point where I only want the BEST for me, is being selfish enough to want the best for the world.
- I was just thinking about that.
- We are crazy.
- Depends.
- I don't want to smoke because I will pollute the air I breathe, therefore harm the world and myself.
- I should not eat sweets, I might get diabetes, give it to my kid somehow, and he will give it to his children and so on...
"Wanting the best for yourself is wanting the best for the world, it is like a Universal Choice"
- How can one be without trying to understand what surrounds him? I am so different from all of them in this matter.
-It's your head. It's your consciousness. It's your maturity. It's your heart.
- But you are my right arm.
- I did not go and look for ONE... I searched for ONE PRINCE.
- I did not search for you.
- You do not find things you do not search for.
- I don't understand people.
- They are us, carried by different turns, lives and choices... If we ought to try what they did we would be just like them.
~ Homosexual
~ Acceptance
~ Conservative
~ Pastor
~ Inconsequential
~ Humanity
~ Marriage
~ Babies
~ Artificial
- If they prove to me they can procreate within species, I will accept them in society.
Without artificial insemination! If a man and a man, can't make another; And a woman and a woman can't make another. There must be something wrong with the "picture".
If everyone opted to be that way. We would be the last generation on Earth. Is that right?
- Gay people have a social status just like yours.
- Well it has nothing to do with the fact it's men with men or women with women... yet, it is the fact they CANNOT procreate!
- You are just being catastrophic!
~ Adoption
~ Limits
~ Discrimination
~ Awareness
~ Equals
~ Permission
~ Authority
~ Evolve
~ Minds
- It's easy to know they are not enough. IT is not so easy to know if I am enough.
- Who knows? I know. You are.
- You do? I am?
- You don't feel determined enough... maybe you are not so sure...
- "... singing ..."
- Fight for your dreams, for your ideas. Yell at the world. Make it roar to your voice, to your actions, through you attitude!
- Run away... And never look back.
- You will not do it.
- Why?
- Because the BEST you can do it's stay!
- Best, Selfishness...
~ Jealousy
~ Fear
~ Doubt
~ Present
~ Questions
~ Solutions
~ Future
~ Love
~ Forever
- I have a feeling of Deja Vu!
- This is where our "self's" in some other dimension just fell apart.
- Tu não perderás nunca esse desejo de andar nas nuvens, de sonhar tão profundamente?
- I am afraid I never will. I want to be a girl a bit longer.
- What if it's a girl?
- If it's not true today, it wasn't true yesterday! What it's not, it never was! =D
- Hey! There you go jumping from cloud to cloud... Look at me, I'm down here.
~ I'll stay at that. And state this: Dreams. ~
- A perfect World? It does exist.
- I know it does, indeed. I know how to reach it.
~ War
~ Politics
~ People
~ Perspective
~ Dictation
~ Neighbors House
~ World without War/Death
~ No pure and innocent, because that's a communist idea LOL
~ Consciousness
- We do not need to be perfect not to kill one another. We need to be RATIONAL!
- Is that even possible for human beings? Isn't the human being full of consciousness for itself?
- Am I insane?
- No you are not insane.
- I am conscientious of everything, don't you understand you are everything? One With the world?
~ Conflict
~ Provocation
~ Bombs
~ 2008, there should not be no war
~ No hunger
~ Peace
~ Development
~ Progress
~ Union
- There are rich people and poor people for a reason. For a good balance. They exist so we can help them stand on their feet. They shall walk by themselves afterwards.
- Are they willing to walk?
- People with good will should be out there feeding the people.
- You... You... are my consciousness. :)
- You can be whatever you want to be, even a Prince.
- But I am a Prince.
~ Timor
~ Voices
~ Change
~ Opportunity
~ Children
~ Somalia
~ Thinking
~ Respect
~ Economy
- Being selfish to the point where I only want the BEST for me, is being selfish enough to want the best for the world.
- I was just thinking about that.
- We are crazy.
- Depends.
- I don't want to smoke because I will pollute the air I breathe, therefore harm the world and myself.
- I should not eat sweets, I might get diabetes, give it to my kid somehow, and he will give it to his children and so on...
"Wanting the best for yourself is wanting the best for the world, it is like a Universal Choice"
- How can one be without trying to understand what surrounds him? I am so different from all of them in this matter.
-It's your head. It's your consciousness. It's your maturity. It's your heart.
- But you are my right arm.
- I did not go and look for ONE... I searched for ONE PRINCE.
- I did not search for you.
- You do not find things you do not search for.
- I don't understand people.
- They are us, carried by different turns, lives and choices... If we ought to try what they did we would be just like them.
~ Homosexual
~ Acceptance
~ Conservative
~ Pastor
~ Inconsequential
~ Humanity
~ Marriage
~ Babies
~ Artificial
- If they prove to me they can procreate within species, I will accept them in society.
Without artificial insemination! If a man and a man, can't make another; And a woman and a woman can't make another. There must be something wrong with the "picture".
If everyone opted to be that way. We would be the last generation on Earth. Is that right?
- Gay people have a social status just like yours.
- Well it has nothing to do with the fact it's men with men or women with women... yet, it is the fact they CANNOT procreate!
- You are just being catastrophic!
~ Adoption
~ Limits
~ Discrimination
~ Awareness
~ Equals
~ Permission
~ Authority
~ Evolve
~ Minds
- It's easy to know they are not enough. IT is not so easy to know if I am enough.
- Who knows? I know. You are.
- You do? I am?
- You don't feel determined enough... maybe you are not so sure...
- "... singing ..."
- Fight for your dreams, for your ideas. Yell at the world. Make it roar to your voice, to your actions, through you attitude!
- Run away... And never look back.
- You will not do it.
- Why?
- Because the BEST you can do it's stay!
- Best, Selfishness...
~ Jealousy
~ Fear
~ Doubt
~ Present
~ Questions
~ Solutions
~ Future
~ Love
~ Forever
- I have a feeling of Deja Vu!
- This is where our "self's" in some other dimension just fell apart.
- Tu não perderás nunca esse desejo de andar nas nuvens, de sonhar tão profundamente?
- I am afraid I never will. I want to be a girl a bit longer.
- What if it's a girl?
- If it's not true today, it wasn't true yesterday! What it's not, it never was! =D
- Hey! There you go jumping from cloud to cloud... Look at me, I'm down here.
~ I'll stay at that. And state this: Dreams. ~
~ONE~
In this advanced generation that we call ourselves. Where words are used in dismay of feelings.In false pretense everything is done. That is the world we choose to live in.
Some people might call me crazy, some call me insane, some call me insensitive...
... but in the end, I know who I am and what I have to give;
I might not say it everyday:
- "Thank You"
- "I miss you"
- "I am sorry"
or even
- "I love you"...
.... but when I say it, I mean it.
It is my Idea to say it, it is with a purpose. And different from steel, those... cannot be bent.
There are a lot of things that makes me different from others but there are also a lot of things that makes us all the same.
If not where we came from, what's our purpose and where we're going; maybe the rudeness, the hope, the love... or the Ideas.
We all have ideas. Some of us choose to actually use them. Any idea, any thought can be reality.
"You are never given the wish without also being given the power to make it true. You may have to work for it, however." [Richard Bach]
Once upon a time, I dared to tell someone (that could care less):
"One day, I shall do great things!"
The truth is, I do great things. NOW.
Right on this moment, I am doing amazing things.
We are timeless creatures. Who's to say what's past, present and future?
If the question of the time can sometimes be deceived? If hours can seem minutes and minutes can seem hours, at times?
If dreams seem so real that you can touch? You can feel? You can imagine... You can create an Idea.
We are chapters? We are channels? What are we?
I like pictures; and these don't even move. Even tho you can can pretend they do, they "appear" to move. [that's reality!]
So, I'll call Everything an album.
Maybe we live our lives for that perfect shot. That steady, colorful, unimaginable, beautiful shot, Moment. Idea.
I shall become one with the world. I am ONE with Everything.
How I have changed. [I smile]
It's not that we don't know where to go...
Or we don't know what to find...
... We do.
It's the awareness of our consciousness that sometimes we lack of.
When you try to look for something, don't you find it?
If you really put work into it? Research? Effort? Thought?
You will find it! If you don't, you were not true at heart.
Richard Bach said well:
"Bad things are not the worst things that can happen to us. Nothing is the worst thing that can happen to us!"
Even tho there are probably millions, billions of self's living who I am NOW...
The truth is there's points in time where histories will meet but some might evolve some might not.
So you could actually be me... And I could be you... With different shapes and different choices made...
And we are all just a big ONE.
With all this, you might think twice when you ought to judge someone.
What if that is one of the billion self's you could of been? Or... that you are?
Would you like to be treated with disrespect? (...)
We all relate people. We do. Doesn't matter who you are.
And we all suffer. We will all get hurt. And it's acceptable.
But the choice of who deserves that pain, is yours.
Make Is be with you.
;)
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
~ Woman I am ~
(speak no evil, see no evil, hear no evil)Lovers, partners and all things else
Why you have to be so insulse?
How can we remain until we ascend?
Destined together was the start,
And now all that remains, it's both of us apart.
"The problem is all inside your head" - you said to me.
Well, I can sure help set you free.
It grieves me so to see you in such pain...
I wish there was something I could do to make you smile again.
All I've done is try to explain...
And days have passed, I've realized it was all in vain.
Wonder what really happened to us then?
- No, I don't want any men!!
Last night you told me in my sleep...
That it was me you couldn't keep...
How can I tolerate such thing?
You act like your mind swing.
You said I wasn't woman enough for you?
Because I talked too much and was egotistic too.
I wasn't soft and warm...
There was so much I needed to do!
When I wasn't doing you any harm...
You spit me out after all the chew.
In addition to that always nagging as well...
Wow, I made your life a living hell!
You said I should be polite and adjust...
Or everything should fall to dust.
Be supportive, not draw comparisons with others to you.
When all you did was again and again all the same do?
I should have always listened without a debate...
I'm sure neither of us would of ran out of fate?!
I don't fit into your idea of a woman
For I flare at the slightest provocation...
I speak my mind without cessation.
Arguments are an integral part of me,
It's sad that after all this time, you just can't see.
As you said all I do is talk nonsense
And I should not say nothing in my defense!
You said: There's a man out there for me...
But you and I are certainly not meant to be.
I could settle for any or all of them if I want...
All I had to do, is go out there and haunt.
I know what you have said of me is not true
Jealousy made me a new woman to you.
What we become! Why didn't you give me a clue?
How I wish this wasn't really true.
Justifications is what you claim I have to say...
And all I do is as I may and my own way.
Killing my spirit, heart and soul was so brutally crude,
Can I ever rise over this character assassination so rude?
My life doesn't need to be lived by two
After all, "I'm man enough for me and you?"
Love is acceptance of the others weaknesses too
Strengths one can accept without loving, getting used to;
You said I am not the perfect woman for you...
A Perfect Woman accepts flaws, yet loves her man true.
#1Greatest Hits from 1958 - 2008
1958: All I Have To Do Is Dream - The Everly Brothers
1959: Stagger Lee - Lloyd Price
1960: Stay - Maurice Williams and the Zodiacs
1961: Surrender - Elvis Presley
1962: I Can't Stop Loving You - Ray Charles
1963: Fingertips Pt. 2 - Stevie Wonder
1964: House Of The Rising Sun - The Animals
1965: (I Can't Get No) Satisfaction - The Rolling Stones
1966: Good Vibrations - The Beach Boys
1967: Hello, Goodbye - The Beatles
1968: (Sittin' On) The Dock Of The Bay - Otis Redding
1969: Everyday People - Sly & the Family Stone
1970: The Tears Of A Clown - Smokey Robinson & The Miracles
1971: Just My Imagination (Running Away With Me) - The Temptations
1972: Let's Stay Together - Al Green
1973: Let's Get It On - Marvin Gaye
1974: The Joker - Steve Miller Band
1975: Island Girl - Elton John
1976: 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover - Paul Simon
1977: Hotel California - The Eagles
1978: Stayin' Alive - Bee Gees
1979: Heart Of Glass - Blondie
1980: Another Brick In The Wall, Pt. 2 - Pink Floyd
1981: Starting Over, (Just Like) - John Lennon
1982: Jack And Diane - John Cougar Mellencamp
1983: Beat It - Michael Jackson
1984: When Doves Cry - Prince
1985: Everybody Wants To Rule The World - Tears for Fears
1986: Sledgehammer - Peter Gabriel
1987: With Or Without You - U2
1988: Sweet Child O' Mine - Guns N' Roses
1989: Like A Prayer - Madonna
1990: Vision Of Love - Mariah Carey
1991: Set Adrift On Memory Bliss - P.M. Dawn
1992: Baby Got Back - Sir Mix-A-Lot
1993: I Will Always Love You - Whitney Houston
1994: Bump N' Grind - R. Kelly
1995: Waterfalls - TLC
1996: California Love - 2Pac
1997: Mo Money Mo Problems - Notorious B.I.G.
1998: Doo Wop (That Thing) - Lauryn Hill
1999: Smooth - Santana
2000: Amazed - Lonestar
2001: All For You - Janet Jackson
2002: Hot In Herre - Nelly
2003: Hey Ya! - Outkast
2004: Yeah! - Usher
2005: Gold Digger - Kanye West
2006: SexyBack - Justin Timberlake
2007: Irreplaceable - Beyonce
2008: Lost - Coldplay
1959: Stagger Lee - Lloyd Price
1960: Stay - Maurice Williams and the Zodiacs
1961: Surrender - Elvis Presley
1962: I Can't Stop Loving You - Ray Charles
1963: Fingertips Pt. 2 - Stevie Wonder
1964: House Of The Rising Sun - The Animals
1965: (I Can't Get No) Satisfaction - The Rolling Stones
1966: Good Vibrations - The Beach Boys
1967: Hello, Goodbye - The Beatles
1968: (Sittin' On) The Dock Of The Bay - Otis Redding
1969: Everyday People - Sly & the Family Stone
1970: The Tears Of A Clown - Smokey Robinson & The Miracles
1971: Just My Imagination (Running Away With Me) - The Temptations
1972: Let's Stay Together - Al Green
1973: Let's Get It On - Marvin Gaye
1974: The Joker - Steve Miller Band
1975: Island Girl - Elton John
1976: 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover - Paul Simon
1977: Hotel California - The Eagles
1978: Stayin' Alive - Bee Gees
1979: Heart Of Glass - Blondie
1980: Another Brick In The Wall, Pt. 2 - Pink Floyd
1981: Starting Over, (Just Like) - John Lennon
1982: Jack And Diane - John Cougar Mellencamp
1983: Beat It - Michael Jackson
1984: When Doves Cry - Prince
1985: Everybody Wants To Rule The World - Tears for Fears
1986: Sledgehammer - Peter Gabriel
1987: With Or Without You - U2
1988: Sweet Child O' Mine - Guns N' Roses
1989: Like A Prayer - Madonna
1990: Vision Of Love - Mariah Carey
1991: Set Adrift On Memory Bliss - P.M. Dawn
1992: Baby Got Back - Sir Mix-A-Lot
1993: I Will Always Love You - Whitney Houston
1994: Bump N' Grind - R. Kelly
1995: Waterfalls - TLC
1996: California Love - 2Pac
1997: Mo Money Mo Problems - Notorious B.I.G.
1998: Doo Wop (That Thing) - Lauryn Hill
1999: Smooth - Santana
2000: Amazed - Lonestar
2001: All For You - Janet Jackson
2002: Hot In Herre - Nelly
2003: Hey Ya! - Outkast
2004: Yeah! - Usher
2005: Gold Digger - Kanye West
2006: SexyBack - Justin Timberlake
2007: Irreplaceable - Beyonce
2008: Lost - Coldplay
Why should you exercise!?
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Social Isolation Makes People Cold, Literally!
The cold shoulder is more than just a metaphor. A new study found that social isolation can actually make people feel cold.
Researchers wanted to learn just how icy loneliness can get. So two University of Toronto psychologists, Chen-Bo Zhong and Geoffrey Leonardelli, asked some subjects to remember a time when they felt socially excluded, such as being rejected from a club, while others recalled memories of being accepted into a group. Afterward, the researchers asked all the participants to estimate the temperature of the room, telling them this task was unrelated to the previous activity and that the building's maintenance staff simply wanted to know.
Researchers wanted to learn just how icy loneliness can get. So two University of Toronto psychologists, Chen-Bo Zhong and Geoffrey Leonardelli, asked some subjects to remember a time when they felt socially excluded, such as being rejected from a club, while others recalled memories of being accepted into a group. Afterward, the researchers asked all the participants to estimate the temperature of the room, telling them this task was unrelated to the previous activity and that the building's maintenance staff simply wanted to know.
While estimates ranged from 54 degrees Fahrenheit to 104 degrees Fahrenheit, in general, those who had been remembering emotionally chilly times also literally felt chillier, even though the room's temperature remained constant during the experiment. People who had recalled feeling ostracized estimated the temperature to be about 71 degrees Fahrenheit, on average. Participants who were remembering the warm, fuzzy feeling of social inclusion felt the room to be a balmy 75 degrees Fahrenheit, on average. The discrepancy is a statistically significant difference, Zhong said.
"We found that the experience of social exclusion literally feels cold," Zhong said. "This may be why people use temperature-related metaphors to describe social inclusion and exclusion."
Loneliness is chilly
In a second experiment, Zhong and Leonardelli had participants play a computer-simulated ball-tossing game in which some people were passed the ball more often than others, so some volunteers felt included and others felt excluded. Afterward, the participants had to rate the appeal of various foods and beverages, such as hot coffee, crackers, an ice-cold Coke, an apple and hot soup.
The unpopular players were much more likely to hanker for warm items such as soup and coffee than those who had just felt socially accepted. The findings imply that participants who had been feeling left out were also literally feeling left out in the cold, and wanted the warm foods to heat them up.
"It's striking that people preferred hot coffee and soup more when socially excluded," Leonardelli said. "Our research suggests that warm chicken soup may be a literal coping mechanism for social isolation."
The study is detailed in the September issue of the journal Psychological Science.
Why the connection?
The researchers speculate that this link between temperature and social inclusion might arise when people are babies.
"For an infant, being closer to a caretaker brings warmth," Zhong said. "When you're a kid, being held by your mother means warmth, and being distant means coldness."
This connection continues throughout life, since when a person is in a room with 10 other people, the ambient temperature is warmer than when in a room alone.
"When we talk about metaphors, they're not just language; they're literally the way we experience the world," Zhong told LiveScience.
This finding fits well with a previous study of Zhong's, in which he asked people to recall a time when they were morally challenged and did something they feel guilty about. Afterward, those people felt a greater need for physical cleansing, such as washing their hands.
"Social experience and physical experience actually overlap to a great extent," Zhong said.
Our social perceptions are not always abstract, but include other information such as bodily perception."
>> I find this amazing because I am always cold. LOL <<
~Desiludida ~
Um dia no passado
Tive um aspecto jovem
Juventude que vem
e vai... mas que errado.
As vezes, sinto que estou a meio
nem venho, nem vou...
Eh como estar entre o caminho e o passeio
e um carro que veio, mas ja passou!
Confusa, complicada, desesperada...
Apontam eles o dedo,
grito, chamam-me revoltada,
E dizem: «olha tem medo»
Fico perdida, ofendida
Ninguem me percebe!! «I Desiludida»
Tive um aspecto jovem
Juventude que vem
e vai... mas que errado.
As vezes, sinto que estou a meio
nem venho, nem vou...
Eh como estar entre o caminho e o passeio
e um carro que veio, mas ja passou!
Confusa, complicada, desesperada...
Apontam eles o dedo,
grito, chamam-me revoltada,
E dizem: «olha tem medo»
Fico perdida, ofendida
Ninguem me percebe!! «I Desiludida»
Aprende - 400 palavras - 1 minuto!
Basta seguir umas regras basicas (simples).
Mas antes de tudo, quero explicar que as regras apresentam uma ou mais excecoes, o que demonstra duas coisas:
Primeira: que tais excecoes so servem precisamente para confirmar as regras.
Segunda: que eh preferivel, errar numa ou noutra ocasiao e aprender 400 palavras em ingles em 1 minuto, do que ficar preocupado/a com a rara excecao... e nao aprender nada.
Para todas as palavras em PORTUGUES que terminem em "DADE" (como a palavra CIDADE) retira o DADE e coloca em seu lugar "TY" e assim CIDADE passa a ser CITY.
EXEMPLOS:
VELOCIDADE = VELOCITY
SIMPLICIDADE = SIMPLICITY
NATURALIDADE = NATURALITY
CAPACIDADE = CAPACITY
Para todas as palavras em PORTUGUES que terminem em "ÇÃO" (como a palavra NAÇÃO) retira o ÇÃO e coloca em seu lugar "TION" e assim NAÇÃO passa a ser NATION.
EXEMPLOS:
SIMPLIFICAÇÃO = SIMPLIFICATION
NAÇÃO = NATION
OBSERVAÇÃO = OBSERVATION
NATURALIZAÇÃO = NATURALIZATION
SENSAÇÃO = SENSATION
Para todas as palavras em PORTUGUES que terminem em "MENTE" e em seu lugar coloca "LLY". Mas quando o radical em português termina em L, como a palavra TOTALMENTE , acrescenta apenas LY). Ve alguns exemplos:
EXEMPLOS:
GENETICAMENTE = GENETICALLY
NATURALMENTE = NATURALLY
ORALMENTE = ORALLY
Para todas as palavras em PORTUGUES que terminem em "ÊNCIA" (como a palavra ESSÊNCIA) retira o ÊNCIA e coloca em seu lugar "ENCE" e assim ESSÊNCIA passa a ser ESSENCE.
EXEMPLOS:
REVERÊNCIA = REVERENCE
FREQUÊNCIA = FREQUENCE
Para palavras que terminam com "AL" (como a palavra GENERAL) nao mudes nada.
EXEMPLOS:
NATURAL = NATURAL
TOTAL = TOTAL
FATAL = FATAL
SENSUAL = SENSUAL
Facil e simples.
Mas antes de tudo, quero explicar que as regras apresentam uma ou mais excecoes, o que demonstra duas coisas:
Primeira: que tais excecoes so servem precisamente para confirmar as regras.
Segunda: que eh preferivel, errar numa ou noutra ocasiao e aprender 400 palavras em ingles em 1 minuto, do que ficar preocupado/a com a rara excecao... e nao aprender nada.
Regra 1:
Para todas as palavras em PORTUGUES que terminem em "DADE" (como a palavra CIDADE) retira o DADE e coloca em seu lugar "TY" e assim CIDADE passa a ser CITY.
EXEMPLOS:
VELOCIDADE = VELOCITY
SIMPLICIDADE = SIMPLICITY
NATURALIDADE = NATURALITY
CAPACIDADE = CAPACITY
Regra 2:
Para todas as palavras em PORTUGUES que terminem em "ÇÃO" (como a palavra NAÇÃO) retira o ÇÃO e coloca em seu lugar "TION" e assim NAÇÃO passa a ser NATION.
EXEMPLOS:
SIMPLIFICAÇÃO = SIMPLIFICATION
NAÇÃO = NATION
OBSERVAÇÃO = OBSERVATION
NATURALIZAÇÃO = NATURALIZATION
SENSAÇÃO = SENSATION
Regra 3:
Para todas as palavras em PORTUGUES que terminem em "MENTE" e em seu lugar coloca "LLY". Mas quando o radical em português termina em L, como a palavra TOTALMENTE , acrescenta apenas LY). Ve alguns exemplos:
EXEMPLOS:
GENETICAMENTE = GENETICALLY
NATURALMENTE = NATURALLY
ORALMENTE = ORALLY
Regra 4:
Para todas as palavras em PORTUGUES que terminem em "ÊNCIA" (como a palavra ESSÊNCIA) retira o ÊNCIA e coloca em seu lugar "ENCE" e assim ESSÊNCIA passa a ser ESSENCE.
EXEMPLOS:
REVERÊNCIA = REVERENCE
FREQUÊNCIA = FREQUENCE
Regra 5:
Para palavras que terminam com "AL" (como a palavra GENERAL) nao mudes nada.
EXEMPLOS:
NATURAL = NATURAL
TOTAL = TOTAL
FATAL = FATAL
SENSUAL = SENSUAL
Facil e simples.
~ Eternidade ~
Ha quem viva de caridade...
Quem morra em saudade...
Quem viva por amizade...
Quem viva com ansiedade.
Quem goste de humidade,
Quem deteste simplicidade,
Quem escreva com capacidade...
Quem ame velocidade!
Quem aja com naturalidade.
Quem prefira a cidade.
Quem perca identidade...
Quem seja uma raridade.
As flores necessitam luminiosidade,
Os passaros pedem liberdade...
Ha quem peca felicidade.
Eu peco-te a ti, eternidade.
Quem morra em saudade...
Quem viva por amizade...
Quem viva com ansiedade.
Quem goste de humidade,
Quem deteste simplicidade,
Quem escreva com capacidade...
Quem ame velocidade!
Quem aja com naturalidade.
Quem prefira a cidade.
Quem perca identidade...
Quem seja uma raridade.
As flores necessitam luminiosidade,
Os passaros pedem liberdade...
Ha quem peca felicidade.
Eu peco-te a ti, eternidade.
Opah, VIVE!!
Sabes que nao vou seguir a vida sozinha,
A vida eh como uma linha!
Segue em frente;
Numa constante.
Que erro, que medo...
Tudo eh um enredo...
Nao vivas o dia como se fosse o ultimo
Nao dramatizes tanto!
Vive como se fosse o penultimo,
Pois no ultimo seras um santo.
Sim, porque quando a vida esta a acabar...
E que nos lembramos de deus
Exigimos que nos va perdoar
Por nao sermos um dos "seus";
"Determination is the first chapter in the book of excellence!"
A vida eh como uma linha!
Segue em frente;
Numa constante.
Que erro, que medo...
Tudo eh um enredo...
Nao vivas o dia como se fosse o ultimo
Nao dramatizes tanto!
Vive como se fosse o penultimo,
Pois no ultimo seras um santo.
Sim, porque quando a vida esta a acabar...
E que nos lembramos de deus
Exigimos que nos va perdoar
Por nao sermos um dos "seus";
"Determination is the first chapter in the book of excellence!"
Quem me dera...
Quem me dera ser um passaro
E voar ate ao Infinito
E para sempre recordar
O lugar mais bonito.
Quem me dera ser chuva
Para poder percorrer o teu rosto
E saborea-lo como a uma uma
Que eu tanto gosto.
Quem me dera ser o mar
E assim, poder tocar
Nessa pele irresistivel,
Essa personalidade inesquecivel.
Quem me dera ser o perdao
Agarrar a tua mao
E fortemente apertar...
Nos teus olhos poder olhar;
E pedir-te desculpa,
Embora isso nao apague a culpa.
E voar ate ao Infinito
E para sempre recordar
O lugar mais bonito.
Quem me dera ser chuva
Para poder percorrer o teu rosto
E saborea-lo como a uma uma
Que eu tanto gosto.
Quem me dera ser o mar
E assim, poder tocar
Nessa pele irresistivel,
Essa personalidade inesquecivel.
Quem me dera ser o perdao
Agarrar a tua mao
E fortemente apertar...
Nos teus olhos poder olhar;
E pedir-te desculpa,
Embora isso nao apague a culpa.
Dedicado a uma croma qualquer!
Mais triste que a tristeza
Eh ser triste, com certeza...
Tentar ter razao
Estragar os outros, reputacao.
Tentativa Falhada.
Obrigada, de nada...
Obrigado por tentares,
De nada por falhares.
Que gaja tolasca
Eh mesmo panasca!
Quando menos esperares
Tungas! Para aprenderes
A comigo nao te meteres.
E cala-te para nao teres mais azares!
Levas nessas fussas de nojenta
Queres bater-me? Anda ca, tenta.
Outro Soneto!
Indecisao, ai indecisao!
Consegues ser tao cruel...
Tento afastar-me; diz o meu coracao:
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Finjo que nao ouco...
E o meu coracao eh que nem poco...
Tem fundo!
E la esta tu, no meu mundo.
Deves pensar depressa e falar devagar
Quando queres enganar alguem...
Mas, nisto de amar
Nao ha espaco a essas coisas, nao sou ninguem.
Aos poucos vais perceber...
Que tudo isto eh mero sofrer.
Monday, September 15, 2008
Uniao de quantos?
Conhecem-se... cumprimentam-se...
"Amam-se"...
Julgam ser o certo
E a uniao esta para perto.
Numa igreja unem lacos
No dia-a-dia dao passos...
Nao lado a lado, um vai ah frente...
Pensando ser o competente.
O outro sente-se ameacado...
Fica desconfiado! E diz estar a ser enganado...
Da provas de insatisfeito,
Aquele que tudo comecou...
E esquece-se que tambem errou...
O casamento esta desfeito!
Preciso de ti...
Preciso de ti.
Da tua presenca.
Da tua companhia.
Dos teus mimos.
Do teu calor.
Do teu toque.
Do teu beijo.
Do teu abraco.
De segurar a tua mao.
De estar ao teu lado.
De olharmos o mar.
De conversarmos.
De viver.
Saudade?
Nao sera esta palavra um insulto
a isto que sinto por nao te ter?
Fazes-me falta.
Chateia-me estar longe de ti,
Irrita-me nao falar contigo...
Nao estar contigo...
Enerva-me pensar em ti
E nao poder tocar-te...
Es tudo o que me causa stress.
Mas tambem es a resolucao de tudo isso.
Es tudo para mim! (Tudo o que?)
O que eh tudo?
Tudo para mim eh tudo o que sei,
O que sinto,
Querer o que desejo...
Ou que necessito.
Tudo tem muitas definicoes;
O que cada um de nos da,
Mais qualquer coisa que nenhum de nos sabe
E que alguns de nos sentem.
=]
Sonhando...
Continuo a sonhar
Com uma nova vida...
Pois se foi bom o meu dormir
Como foi cruel o meu despertar!
Vida nao vida, um pouco indefinida
Mas onde possa sorrir...
E este o meu adormecer
Onde sonhar eh poder.
Acabo por realizar
Pois mesmo a sonhar
Embora num segundo,
Estou no meu mundo.
Passo a passo
Meu passado e presente traco
Caminhando a um futuro...
Um tanto ou quanto duro!
Amolece este meu viver
Promete que iras permanecer
Para sempre no meu coracao;
Nao dando espaco ah solidao!
Com uma nova vida...
Pois se foi bom o meu dormir
Como foi cruel o meu despertar!
Vida nao vida, um pouco indefinida
Mas onde possa sorrir...
E este o meu adormecer
Onde sonhar eh poder.
Acabo por realizar
Pois mesmo a sonhar
Embora num segundo,
Estou no meu mundo.
Passo a passo
Meu passado e presente traco
Caminhando a um futuro...
Um tanto ou quanto duro!
Amolece este meu viver
Promete que iras permanecer
Para sempre no meu coracao;
Nao dando espaco ah solidao!
2 vezes
Sentir sem discricao...
Chorar, sentir paixao...
Querer, chorar por mais...
Amar, querer demais.
Acreditar, amar um amor cego.
Perder, nao sei se va acreditar, nao nego.
Escolher, perder-te nao posso.
Esquecer, escolher o que eh nosso.
Pedir, esquecer-te e ir de seguida...
Fechar, peco que me des a tua vida.
______, Fechar esta escrita...
Que ate ficou bonita.
[Bem acho que aquele espaco teria de escrever "Ficar"] LOL
Com tanto desejo... [minha nossa]
Desejar ser desejosa
para desejar o desejo
de te desejar
sendo tu o desejo
de desejar
ser desejosa
para desejar-te.
Destruir? Pra que?
Nos precisamos de viver,
Nos precisamos de cantar,
Tambem precisamos de ter...
Ar para respirar!
Esse ar e um composto
Feito por algum genio
Que introduziu
Nos nossos pulmoes oxigenio.
Mas esse ar esgota
E podemos assim morrer...
Assim por cada arvore que se corta
Eh um "bocado de ar a desaparecer".
E o homem que nao eh deus
Sendo assim, um simples mortal
O que eh certo e vai acontecer
Com este comportamento anormal,
Tudo vai deixar de ser...
Para nunca mais existir
Ja ai nao pode haver mais mal,
Vai-se tudo extinguir.
Por isso devemos pensar
Como parar o carrossel
E tentar,
Tudo isto evitar...
E parar para pensar
Sempre que se gasta uma folha de papel.
Nos precisamos de cantar,
Tambem precisamos de ter...
Ar para respirar!
Esse ar e um composto
Feito por algum genio
Que introduziu
Nos nossos pulmoes oxigenio.
Mas esse ar esgota
E podemos assim morrer...
Assim por cada arvore que se corta
Eh um "bocado de ar a desaparecer".
E o homem que nao eh deus
Sendo assim, um simples mortal
O que eh certo e vai acontecer
Com este comportamento anormal,
Tudo vai deixar de ser...
Para nunca mais existir
Ja ai nao pode haver mais mal,
Vai-se tudo extinguir.
Por isso devemos pensar
Como parar o carrossel
E tentar,
Tudo isto evitar...
E parar para pensar
Sempre que se gasta uma folha de papel.
Porque?
Porque ha tantas lagrimas a enxugar,
Tantos tristes a consolar,
Tantos frutos a colher,
Tantas vozes a escutar,
Tantos sorrisos a ver,
Tantas emocoes a partilhar,
Tanta felicidade a oferecer,
Tantas noites a iluminar,
Tanto perdao a conceder,
Tanta paz a construir,
Tanta justica a usufruir,
Tantos pobres a libertar,
Tantas portas a abrir,
Tantos abracos a dar,
Tanta perseguicao a suportar,
Tanto odio a negar,
Tanto amor por receber,
E tanto amor a conquistar.
Tanta alegria a anunciar,
E tanto a querer,...
Se assim se desejar!
Tantos tristes a consolar,
Tantos frutos a colher,
Tantas vozes a escutar,
Tantos sorrisos a ver,
Tantas emocoes a partilhar,
Tanta felicidade a oferecer,
Tantas noites a iluminar,
Tanto perdao a conceder,
Tanta paz a construir,
Tanta justica a usufruir,
Tantos pobres a libertar,
Tantas portas a abrir,
Tantos abracos a dar,
Tanta perseguicao a suportar,
Tanto odio a negar,
Tanto amor por receber,
E tanto amor a conquistar.
Tanta alegria a anunciar,
E tanto a querer,...
Se assim se desejar!
Ha tempo para tudo!
Ha tempo para nascer, tempo para morrer.
Tempo para destruir, tempo para edificar.
Tempo parar chorar, tempo para rir.
Tempo para se afligir, tempo para dancar.
Tempo para espalhar pedras e tempo para as juntar.
Tempo para dar abracos, tempo para se afastar deles.
Tempo para adquirir, tempo para perder.
Tempo para guardar, tempo para deitar fora.
Tempo para rasgar, tempo para coser.
Tempo para calar, tempo para falar.
Tempo para amar, tempo para odiar.
Tempo para a guerra e tempo para a paz.
Tempo para destruir, tempo para edificar.
Tempo parar chorar, tempo para rir.
Tempo para se afligir, tempo para dancar.
Tempo para espalhar pedras e tempo para as juntar.
Tempo para dar abracos, tempo para se afastar deles.
Tempo para adquirir, tempo para perder.
Tempo para guardar, tempo para deitar fora.
Tempo para rasgar, tempo para coser.
Tempo para calar, tempo para falar.
Tempo para amar, tempo para odiar.
Tempo para a guerra e tempo para a paz.
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Niko <3
So today, I'm going to talk about
someone else very important in my life.
I've mentioned:
- My grandfather
- My madrinha (godmother)
- My little niece, Juliana
- My mom...
- My dad...
I'm taking the time to talk about someone,
not less important than any of those mentioned above...
... and her name is: Nicole Brown. (Niko)
So this young lady is a jewel.
She goes from being beautiful, talented to extremely intelligent.
She is all around, great.
She's the best friend that anyone could ask for.
The best sister... that anyone would want.
The best niece... that I could ever have.
I could really talk about her all day.
Because there is so much to say.
But words would always fall short.
Nothing can describe her greatness.
It's her sense of humor,
It's her personality,
Her character,
Kindness,
....
It's her love for the people around her,
Her love for animals,
Her love for life...
... that always brings a smile to my face.
She really amazes me.
I see so much potential in her.
She always manages to brighten my day.
It's whether teaching me something...
... or be as random as me ...
"You know that song lean like a cholo?
It could be 'lean like a cello...
Elbows up side to side
Elbows up side to side..."
LOL!! (this is an inside joke)
She plays a Cello.
And the song has nothing to do with Cello's.
(I guess you'd have to be there...)
All this to say... She is the best as they come.
And one of the best things life had to offer.
And if anyone messes with her,
Hurts her in any way,
I am here.
And I WILL hurt you.
[stabs the hand doll] ---> inside joke
I've mentioned:
- My grandfather
- My madrinha (godmother)
- My little niece, Juliana
- My mom...
- My dad...
I'm taking the time to talk about someone,
not less important than any of those mentioned above...
... and her name is: Nicole Brown. (Niko)
So this young lady is a jewel.
She goes from being beautiful, talented to extremely intelligent.
She is all around, great.
She's the best friend that anyone could ask for.
The best sister... that anyone would want.
The best niece... that I could ever have.
I could really talk about her all day.
Because there is so much to say.
But words would always fall short.
Nothing can describe her greatness.
It's her sense of humor,
It's her personality,
Her character,
Kindness,
....
It's her love for the people around her,
Her love for animals,
Her love for life...
... that always brings a smile to my face.
She really amazes me.
I see so much potential in her.
She always manages to brighten my day.
It's whether teaching me something...
... or be as random as me ...
"You know that song lean like a cholo?
It could be 'lean like a cello...
Elbows up side to side
Elbows up side to side..."
LOL!! (this is an inside joke)
She plays a Cello.
And the song has nothing to do with Cello's.
(I guess you'd have to be there...
All this to say... She is the best as they come.
And one of the best things life had to offer.
And if anyone messes with her,
Hurts her in any way,
I am here.
And I WILL hurt you.
[stabs the hand doll] ---> inside joke
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
~ Don't give up! ~
I have such a feeling of hope today...... Like I could just die with a purpose.
We read about love. We see it in movies.
But it's so rare to encounter someone in real life that makes you feel deeply in thought over what they say to you:
"Not one day goes by without me missing or thinking of her."
I could of cried when I heard this because I KNEW it was real.
The question is: Did she?
We get sad over stories that are invented by our human minds; and I stop and care to think about all the people that end up losing someone in real life? Whether to someone else or to something else (whatever that might be). Love grows founder. But is that the ultimate task of love? Loss? Having to let go?
"You shouldn't make people a necessity..."
- Just in case they have to embark in another journey.
But how wonderful it is, to do so?
Having someone that moves you, makes you a better person, brings out the best in you, someone that doesn't need you to go down memory lane or doesn't tell you what to do because you can take care of yourself without no ones supervision. Someone that tells you how much you move them, how you change them, how you make them a man/woman, just by loving them.
Someone that is eternally grateful to you.
It's when you are sad, unsure or you have no faith... and you see yourself through their eyes. And you see how much of a honor it is to be who you are... and the privilege to have met them.
It's feeling lucky. It's being someone's life...
... And if that person departs, your life falls to dust. To chaos.
Nothing matters... Because Everything is gone.
Seeing & listening to someone that has once loved talking about their lost one, it's like listening to sigur ros. It gives you hope to have found them, but it's all so sad.
You can almost see the love in their eyes, I'm sure I just didn't try hard enough.
You sense it in your skin every time their voice trembles...
... all there is left are memories? No. It's love!
To a friend out there that is having a hard time today...
Let me tell you:
Don't be sad. Do not. You should not be sad.
Because it is better to love and lose than not loving at all.
But it's so rare to encounter someone in real life that makes you feel deeply in thought over what they say to you:
"Not one day goes by without me missing or thinking of her."
I could of cried when I heard this because I KNEW it was real.
The question is: Did she?
We get sad over stories that are invented by our human minds; and I stop and care to think about all the people that end up losing someone in real life? Whether to someone else or to something else (whatever that might be). Love grows founder. But is that the ultimate task of love? Loss? Having to let go?
"You shouldn't make people a necessity..."
- Just in case they have to embark in another journey.
But how wonderful it is, to do so?
Having someone that moves you, makes you a better person, brings out the best in you, someone that doesn't need you to go down memory lane or doesn't tell you what to do because you can take care of yourself without no ones supervision. Someone that tells you how much you move them, how you change them, how you make them a man/woman, just by loving them.
Someone that is eternally grateful to you.
It's when you are sad, unsure or you have no faith... and you see yourself through their eyes. And you see how much of a honor it is to be who you are... and the privilege to have met them.
It's feeling lucky. It's being someone's life...
... And if that person departs, your life falls to dust. To chaos.
Nothing matters... Because Everything is gone.
Seeing & listening to someone that has once loved talking about their lost one, it's like listening to sigur ros. It gives you hope to have found them, but it's all so sad.
You can almost see the love in their eyes, I'm sure I just didn't try hard enough.
You sense it in your skin every time their voice trembles...
... all there is left are memories? No. It's love!
To a friend out there that is having a hard time today...
Let me tell you:
Don't be sad. Do not. You should not be sad.
Because it is better to love and lose than not loving at all.
I wish I could be someones Amber.
~ The Measure of a Human ~
4 Measurements? [smile]
Success is entirely subjective. If you define what success means to you, you're not measuring up to anybody's standards but your own.
Ambition trumps ability. When it comes to reaching the beachhead of success, passion is a stronger tide than raw talent.
Self-deprecation is the most endearing type of humor. It sets people at ease; just be careful not to overuse it or you won't be taken seriously.
Regardless of your size, learn to empathize with the little guy. It'll broaden your thinking, keep you humble, and ensure that you always have the proper perspective. The ability to examine issues from above and below is priceless.
Success is entirely subjective. If you define what success means to you, you're not measuring up to anybody's standards but your own.
Ambition trumps ability. When it comes to reaching the beachhead of success, passion is a stronger tide than raw talent.
Self-deprecation is the most endearing type of humor. It sets people at ease; just be careful not to overuse it or you won't be taken seriously.
Regardless of your size, learn to empathize with the little guy. It'll broaden your thinking, keep you humble, and ensure that you always have the proper perspective. The ability to examine issues from above and below is priceless.
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
~ PeTs ~
This entry is just to talk about the 3 stinkers in the house.
A- Lollipop, B- Princess & C- Junior.
A- The Dog.
B- The Cat.
C- The reptile.
I absolutely love dogs, hate cats and could care less about lizards.
But, they ended up being kind of like people.
You might not like them too much at first, but then being around them,
you start sympathizing with the creatures.
- Even the cat that keeps her tail up... so you always have a great view of her...
... you know!
Let's start with Lollipop.
He has a lot of discipline. Is the greatest dog ever.
Couldn't harm anyone. Loves hes walks around the backyard.
And is a total joke. He will play with you until the bitter end.
Loves treats... and to be recognized for his good work.
He also knows a lot of tricks. [he is +/- 10 yrs old]
If he could say anything, he would constantly say:
"I love you".
Then there's Princess.
The best adjective to describe her is: SNOB.
She sleeps entirely too much.
Hates to be bothered unless is by miss Brown. [my niece]
Won't drink water if the bowl isn't 3/4 full, can't be too full or too empty.
Won't walk up or down the stairs, the majesty has to be carried.
Won't go to bed, unless she is carried to bed...
... sounds like a spoiled kid to me.
You learn to love her but just because she warms me up when I'm cold.
If she could possibly say anything, it would be:
"B*TCH what did I tell you about the damn water?"
Last but not least... Junior.
He is the lizard.
He is totally disgusting. I mean from eating little mice to crickets...
Having to be cleaned in a daily basis, almost.
The freaking reptile is a waste of time. (laughing...)
After touching him a few times and having to "live" to see him
around quite often I think I'd miss him if something happened to the damn thing.
If he could speak, he'd say:
"god, please send upon us a Plague of Crickets!"
___________________________________________________
> Me & pets <
A- Lollipop, B- Princess & C- Junior.
A- The Dog.
B- The Cat.
C- The reptile.
I absolutely love dogs, hate cats and could care less about lizards.
But, they ended up being kind of like people.
You might not like them too much at first, but then being around them,
you start sympathizing with the creatures.
- Even the cat that keeps her tail up... so you always have a great view of her...
... you know!
Let's start with Lollipop.He has a lot of discipline. Is the greatest dog ever.
Couldn't harm anyone. Loves hes walks around the backyard.
And is a total joke. He will play with you until the bitter end.
Loves treats... and to be recognized for his good work.
He also knows a lot of tricks. [he is +/- 10 yrs old]
If he could say anything, he would constantly say:
"I love you".
Then there's Princess.The best adjective to describe her is: SNOB.
She sleeps entirely too much.
Hates to be bothered unless is by miss Brown. [my niece]
Won't drink water if the bowl isn't 3/4 full, can't be too full or too empty.
Won't walk up or down the stairs, the majesty has to be carried.
Won't go to bed, unless she is carried to bed...
... sounds like a spoiled kid to me.
You learn to love her but just because she warms me up when I'm cold.
If she could possibly say anything, it would be:
"B*TCH what did I tell you about the damn water?"
Last but not least... Junior.He is the lizard.
He is totally disgusting. I mean from eating little mice to crickets...
Having to be cleaned in a daily basis, almost.
The freaking reptile is a waste of time. (laughing...)
After touching him a few times and having to "live" to see him
around quite often I think I'd miss him if something happened to the damn thing.
If he could speak, he'd say:
"god, please send upon us a Plague of Crickets!"
___________________________________________________
> Me & pets <
~ Overcome Jealousy ~
[envy]1. Leave the Players and the Flirts Behind
In order to overcome jealousy, you've got to figure out whether you're being real or being paranoid. Normal jealousy can actually serve a purpose. It's there to alert you to a partner's possible infidelity -- a threat to the relationship. Is your relationship actually being threatened or is the jealousy in your head only? A good way to figure out if there's a basis to your jealousy is to reflect on your past relationships. Are you always jealous even if you haven't had a reason to be? Do you have trust issues in every relationship or just this one? Also, talk to some friends or family who can be objective about the situation and help you sort out your jealous feelings -- a counselor can also be helpful with this.
The source of a lot of the jealousy has nothing to do with what your date does; it lies within you. If you're upset because your date drools a little when he or she sees a fashion model or celebrity in a magazine, don't start comparing yourself to that image. Work on your dating confidence and focus on all you have to offer. Then, your envy of others will dramatically decrease.
4. Talk It Through
Learn to communicate your jealous feelings in a healthy way. For instance, let your mate know that you're jealous about the amount of time the attractive coworker gets to spend with him or her. Make sure as you're talking, you're not accusing. Accusing makes any person defensive, and you won't get anywhere.
5. Draw the LineParticularly, if you are in a monogamous relationship with someone, you need to establish what behaviors are acceptable to you and what behaviors will bring out the green-eyed monster in you. Are you okay with your partner constantly texting a single man -- or single woman? Will that send you over the edge? How do you feel about your partner dancing with someone else at a club when you aren't around?
Establishing reasonable boundaries and respecting them gets both of you on the same playing field. The keyword here is reasonable. Setting a boundary like "Don't talk to any single men -- or single women -- you work with" is an impossible and smothering line to draw.
6. Strengthen Your Relationship in Other WaysEstablishing reasonable boundaries and respecting them gets both of you on the same playing field. The keyword here is reasonable. Setting a boundary like "Don't talk to any single men -- or single women -- you work with" is an impossible and smothering line to draw.
If you're overly jealous when there isn't a whole lot of reason to be, it means that your relationship isn't as strong as it should be. You need to evaluate what's lacking. Are you not spending enough quality time together? Has the passion died down over the years? Once you identify what's really concerning you, then you can address it with your partner and work on strengthening the relationship rather than wasting time and energy on empty jealous feelings.
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